Sunan Ibn Majah

It was narrated that `Abdullah bin Sarjis said:""The Messenger of Allah forbade men to perform ablution with the water left over by a woman, and women to perform ablution with water left over by a man, however both (spouses) may start to perform their ablutions at the same time."" Abu `Abdullah Ibn Majah said: ""The first (narration) is correct, and the second (narration) is Wahm (an error)."" Another chain with similar wording